All Women Are Whores Part II
“It’s okay for men to sleep around, but when women do it, they’re called sluts!”
Man do I hate talking to women.
Talking to women is like prancing around in the backyard of someone who has five Dalmatians. First of all, you’re prancing and you shouldn’t be doing that, but more importantly have you seen what five Dalmatians can do to a backyard?
You shouldn’t even open the backdoor unless you’re wearing galoshes. And that’s exactly what you need to wade through women and their endless mouth shit.
Take this fucking gem.
“It’s okay for men to sleep around but women are sluts! That’s a double standard.”
No, sweetheart, that tank top is a double standard. A double standard of sexy.
I’m joking, but that’s all it takes to get that pre-rage, five-seconds-to-meltdown shrew to abandon her principles and taxi right back into the landing zone. Women are rock-solid reliable that way. I think I read something about how Jesus was deterred several times by a little harmless flirting.
Oh wait, no I didn’t. Because Jesus was a man.
Women have absolutely no clue what a “double standard” is. For every woman who’s ever said the words, there’re six who wish they would have and twenty who don’t know what the fuck anyone is talking about but are pretty sure they agree. Women think like seagulls. If they see anything that looks like bread (attention) they pounce on it like a flock of ravenous savages.
But what am I talking about?
The statement “It’s okay for men to sleep around but when women do it, they’re sluts” is complete bullshit. To women, it’s not okay at all for men to sleep around. No woman on Earth thinks that’s okay. They do, however, love it.
Women love a man-whore like they love oxygen. I’m not talking about oxygen for breathing either. I’m talking about oxygen for cleaning their pores — which more of them should do more often.
And men? Men don’t give ten shits if anyone’s a whore — except their daughters, sisters, and mothers; obviously, but that’s only because that manner of female philandery reflects poorly on a man.
Women think men think “it’s not okay for women to be whores” because women will believe anything we tell them. And we can tell them whatever we want. That’s one of the many prerogatives of being a man — doing and saying whatever you want, whenever you want. Nature knows that you as a man will use this responsibly, that’s why she gave you all the brains and muscle and not the fat ass.
I love you.
I have no idea what that is.
I totally respect you. For real.
Don’t make me laugh. Respect is earned. No woman has ever earned anything in her life.
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February 24th, 2006 at 2:30 pm - IP Man-Hash: 340da95569b9b
“Respect is earned. No woman has ever earned anything in her life.” Too true.
Purely, this “double standard” is imposed by women, not on women. A woman who knows a man who hasn’t had much experience isn’t worth talking to, and her friend who has sex with another guy every other weekend is a slut.
But then again, when has a woman ever been responsible for anything?
February 24th, 2006 at 3:25 pm - IP Man-Hash: dbd61aebbf115
You want to know the “double standard” that burns my fucking ass is??!! Riddle me this one batman…..When a man cheats on his woman, his shit is quickly thrown out on the lawn, and forgivness is totally barred from him. HOWEVER….when a woman does this she is expected to be given a “second chance.” This is because she is so fucking sorry for what happened, but…….(you knew the “but” was coming on that one). She then proceeds to blame her man for (insert your fucking excuse here) and if he was a “real man” this would have never happned.
So a woman can cheat on her man and blame him for it, but men have no excuse???! WTF!!!??
February 24th, 2006 at 3:28 pm - IP Man-Hash: f3ae1ac46a2e3
You’re absolutely right, Joe. The only probably I have with blaming women for cheating is that it assumes women have a choice at anything at all.
Women think like dogs do. They can’t ask themselves important things like, “what if?”
-Dick
February 24th, 2006 at 3:28 pm - IP Man-Hash: dbd61aebbf115
Don’t get me wrong here….I am not condoning cheating on your wife/girlfriend or woman, but the forgivness, only going in one direction. I feel is one of the biggest loads of fertilizers that women can produce.
February 24th, 2006 at 3:37 pm - IP Man-Hash: f3ae1ac46a2e3
Oh of course.
What I’m saying is that I find it hard to blame women for cheating per se. It’s like blaming them for driving poorly. They just don’t know what they’re doing. They don’t know what things like integrity are.
-Dick
February 24th, 2006 at 3:52 pm - IP Man-Hash: 340da95569b9b
Again with responsibility, women don’t have a sense of it. If a woman strays it’s the husbands/boyfriends fault. Glenn Sacks had a good radio show on this subject. I’ll try to find it sometime.
February 25th, 2006 at 10:48 am - IP Man-Hash: 281c250662a27
This is a brilliant discussion. I am familiar with this situation myself. The man wasn’t paying enough attention / affection to the woman so she cheats and it is his fault. It is also his fault when he cheats. She is continually nagging him and withholding her affection and he cheats and if he really loved he would never have even thought of doing this. Womens’ causational reasoning is inherently wrong. They cannot see, and are not willing to acknowledge the truth. The truth is people makes choices. The man chose to cheat, it is his fault. If the woman chose to cheat, it is her fault. Accountability is a foreign word to women.
February 25th, 2006 at 7:54 pm - IP Man-Hash: ec3d639f39782
I did take quite a few years to work out how women can just dump a husband or boyfriend and go out with it’s mates to find justification and latch onto another sucker all within a week with absolutely no guilt.
The justification is “blame the male” as he did not cater to her selfish needs. Ask her what has she done for her former partner and you are on the receiving end of a non-comprehending blank expression.
With men it’s a commitment, with women it’s shopping until something better “in her opinion ” comes along.
February 26th, 2006 at 1:03 am - IP Man-Hash: 8e69957d9934e
Do you take it in the ass faggot?
February 26th, 2006 at 1:04 am - IP Man-Hash: 8e69957d9934e
Homo, your gay lover’s calling. You have AIDS from taking it in the ass.
February 26th, 2006 at 1:06 am - IP Man-Hash: 8e69957d9934e
I should leave my address so you gay homos can come over and I can beat the crap out of you. Faggot.
February 26th, 2006 at 2:06 am - IP Man-Hash: a9be2716ae33b
You sound mad and all riled up Alan. Your anger is possibly blinding you to the actual mantra used by cheaters of either sex, “But I still love you, it meant nothing.” This also usually being the truth.
If a partner cheats of course it is their own fault, it was their decision and they are responsible for it. But, blaming the “cheater” soley for cheating fails to consider what was lacking in their relationship or what was wrong with it that they felt the need to escape from.
I personally think cheaters (and blame) can be divided into two different types. Cheaters who are playboys or playgirls through and through. These types should never married and the blame here can definately be individually assigned. Then you have the cheaters who are in dysfunctional relationships, who fall out of love with their partner and in love with someone else. In these cases, I think the problems within the relationship that push the “cheater” or “cheaters” towards a third party must be considered, and, blame or responsibility distributed. So when you say that women who cheat blame men for influencing them to cheat, there is probably some truth in what they are saying.
I also agree with you that women shouldn’t simply blame a man for cheating without looking at the effects their own behaviour may have had, for the cehating to occur. But you should consider that Popular culture has always taught us to believe that men simply can’t help themselves and that extramarital affairs are typically the domain of men (I know, not anymore); that this type of behaviour is somewhat “normal” for men, and therefore to be expected. So, perhaps you should consider making allowances for women who have bought the popular myth, and who then react as if conditioned by it, when they blame the cheating on the man individually. Cause it’s in him, isn’t it?
February 26th, 2006 at 2:42 am - IP Man-Hash: 76cebfba7c181
Men brought up under active fathers (and even many not) know that cheating on a marriage is not “normal” as you put it.
Not remotely.
Allowances? In him? Yeah…. Not.
-wolfe
February 26th, 2006 at 3:08 am - IP Man-Hash: a9be2716ae33b
I am not saying it is normal (you’re either tired or mad and have misread me), I am saying that pop culture has depicted it as normal, or a better word might be, traditionally something that men do and women don’t, or traditionaly, don’t do as often as men (I know, I know, that’s all changed now). And dick’s rewriting popular culture as we know it.
Allowances? In him? Yeah…Not.
Yes wolfe, I agree with you, or to be more accurate, you agree with what I said (that allowances aren’t made for him), yet I think you’re tired because you haven’t realised that that is what I was saying. Maybe because you missed the sarcasm in my last sentence.
February 26th, 2006 at 4:28 am - IP Man-Hash: eadd56da2c7c9
Dick has already explained this.
“Women handling sarcasm is like a viking charging into battle with a giant salami. Dumb and embarassing.”
“Women can’t be sarcastic because they don’t think anything they say is true anyway.”
-Big Al
February 26th, 2006 at 7:21 am - IP Man-Hash: 5630214f5d8bf
This is a feminist myth.
I’m not aware of any pop-culture examples in which it has been portrayed that men cheating on their wives or girlfriends is either standard practice or acceptable. Please feel free to provide examples of such pop culture.
I am aware of pop culture which has portrayed men as cheating. It does not, however, portray it as normal or accpeptable.
Dakota Smith
February 26th, 2006 at 8:50 am - IP Man-Hash: 281c250662a27
Well said, Dakota.
Female, I am not mad or riled up. And your rationalization of cheating of any kind is ridiculous. There is never an excuse to cheat, no matter what is missing in the relationship or the extent of it’s dysfunction. That will not fix it. It’s puts another problem into the relationship. I guess I should have made my point more clearly. Cheating is never acceptable, period. If you are in a committed relationship, and there is a problem, the way to solve it is to discuss the problem and come to a resolution. If you can’t come to a resolution, leave. Cheating is, in my opinion, the most disrespectful, hurtful thing, one person can do to another. Even with all the crap my ex did to me, I never thought of cheating. That would not have solved the problem with us. But she refused to address the problems in an adult fashion, a discussion where both people listen to the other’s point/view/perspective and try to come to a resolution. So I left. Are you saying that I should have cheated on her in a childish attempt to get her attention? So then I would have to address the cheating and the other issues would get swept under the carpet and never resolved.
Your reasoning is beyond stupidity.
February 26th, 2006 at 10:05 am - IP Man-Hash: 340da95569b9b
Female you’re very misguided. Men cheating is acceptable? Give me a break. People actually think that Clara Harris should be set free for killing her husband just because he cheated on her. That’a pretty good example of how awful some people look at male cheating.
But women cheating, well, that’s a bit different. They play that it’s the mans fault, even you’re doing this, female.
February 26th, 2006 at 1:43 pm - IP Man-Hash: 527da1e4b605d
You need to shut the fuck up you ball juggling ass clown. Before a man puts you in your place.
February 26th, 2006 at 2:31 pm - IP Man-Hash: 8e69957d9934e
I’m so scared HelpWanted. Why don’t you get a job fuckface? Want my address? I’d love to beat the crap out of you. I’d cut off your one inch cock and make you eat it. I’m looking forward to you coming over faggot. You’ll take it in the ass homo.
February 26th, 2006 at 2:34 pm - IP Man-Hash: 8e69957d9934e
Dick Masterson is the gay lover of helpwanted. I have photos of them fucking and sucking each other.
February 26th, 2006 at 3:33 pm - IP Man-Hash: 5475964f1d333
Alan et al., it is your reasoning that is stupid. Every single one of you has misread me, or misinterpreted my post to fit your own skewed perspective and prejudicial biases. I’m calling the Zoolander Centre, it’s clear you’re all boarders there who’ve gone awol.
February 26th, 2006 at 4:33 pm - IP Man-Hash: 340da95569b9b
Hi, Misty. You seem fairly energetic. Perhaps we could meet sometime, I’ll make you my “Mary Jane Kelly”.
Perhaps you can come up with a little bit more then a homosexual accusation. Oh well, it doesn’t matter.
February 26th, 2006 at 5:10 pm - IP Man-Hash: 5630214f5d8bf
Ok, let’s go back to the post that seems to be the cause of this and see what you said:
Good … no disagreement here.
Why is it necessary to consider this? Cheating is not acceptable, period. It doesn’t matter what excuse a person can come up with, it’s just wrong, always.
And if we want to get really personal, here, consider my own marriage: the last five years were an ongoing miserable torrent of verbal, emotional, and ultimately physical abuse. I came home every night not asking, “I wonder if she’ll lay into me tonight?” but rather, “I wonder what she’ll lay into me tonight about?”
You think that after a few years of that and a few years of enforced abstinance I wasn’t really, really tempted to cheat on her? You think I didn’t have the opportunity and willing potential partners? Because I did.
I really can’t think of a situation that would be much worse for a person to be in, but when it came right down to it, I said, “No, I agreed to a certain commitment when I was married, and no matter how bad it gets, that commitment is still there.” I never cheated on her throughout our marriage.
Now, I will admit that about four months into our divorce negotiations, when our marriage was very much dead, I met my current girlfriend. At that point, while I wasn’t beyond my commitment in word, I knew I was only a couple of months from it. Perhaps I should have waited the couple of months, but frankly it was nice to be around someone who was not only a loving person but sane — something I’d yet to experience with a woman.
Bottom line: cheating on my wife would have been wrong, regardless of how badly she treated me. In order to live with myself, I simply couldn’t do it. Even now, I feel a little guilty that the papers hadn’t been signed when I started seeing my current girlfriend, but as I say, it was such a starkly enjoyable relationship that I can’t feel too badly about it.
So when I say cheating is wrong and the environmental factors that may have induced someone to do it are irrelevant, I’m not applying a different yardstick to anyone else that I have not successfully applied to myself. I stand by my position: it’s just wrong, and the environmental factors are irrelevant.
Dakota Smith
February 26th, 2006 at 5:29 pm - IP Man-Hash: 5630214f5d8bf
Oh, and just as a little addendum, here, Female:
Two weekends ago, after dropping my girlfriend off at about midnight at her house (we both have kids, so we tend to see each other when our respective children aren’t with us and/or we can find someone to watch them after they’re in bed), I went to a nearby convenience store to grab a snack.
The convenience store isn’t in the best part of town, and I had just finished handing a bum a buck and getting in my car when this reasonably attractive latina pulled up in a van and flagged me down. She said she was almost out of gas and needed a ride to her nearby home to get money.
I told her that as long as it was close, she could hop in. She did so and didn’t provide an address, just saying, “Just drive this way.” After a couple of blocks, I realized she was kind of looking at me expectantly.
Now, I’m 41, but I’ve got ethics, so it hadn’t really occurred to me that she was actually out working the streets and I’d inadvertantly accepted.
So I said, “Uh, jeez, I’m sorry if there’s been a misunderstanding, I just was going to give you a ride, you know. Were you expecting something else?” She said that she hoped so, she needed money.
Now, right then and there, I could’ve gotten sex with an attractive latina at least twenty years my junior — and you can imagine just how often an opportunity like that presents itself. Nor would my girlfriend have ever been in any kind of a position to find out about it.
But I told the girl no, I was in a relationship and in fact had just dropped my girlfriend off at home. So I took her back to the convenience store and gave her twenty bucks in the hope that at least she wouldn’t have to work the streets again that night.
I got home and called my girlfriend to laugh about just what a sheltered idiot I am, that I didn’t realize that she was working the streets in the first place.
Now, if it was socially acceptable for me to pay a $20-dollar-a-pop latina, I would have done it and no one would have found fault with me. But it’s not socially acceptable.
Dakota Smith
February 26th, 2006 at 5:40 pm - IP Man-Hash: 281c250662a27
Bravo Dakota. I completely agree. I think you and are had the same thought pattern on this.
Female, no one here has misread your post.
I said cheating is wrong period. No allowances, no justifications. IT IS WRONG.
You said you agree that it is wrong if the person is a player, but if there were circumstances involved then you have to evaluate the situation. So, it is wrong in certain instances, but can be useful in committed relationships to bring resolution to a problem.
Are you insane? If it meant nothing, why do it? It’s cost/benefit or risk/reward analysis.
If you benefit nothing from it, why would you risk your life, wife and kids to do it?
CHEATING IS UNACCEPTABLE BEHAVIOR…ALWAYS!
February 26th, 2006 at 5:48 pm - IP Man-Hash: 527da1e4b605d
LMAO look at this keyboard tuff girl. How would u give it to me in the ass? Could you be a shim? What corner do you work? Get a job? LMAO oh wow your a fucking GED failing inbred dick wad of a whore. Thats right I called you a WHORE. What you gonna do? HUH HUH WHAT WHAT? LMAO!
February 26th, 2006 at 5:51 pm - IP Man-Hash: 527da1e4b605d
I have a video of Misty getting fucked in the ass hole by Female with a strap-on. Its actually pretty good stuff besides the fact that Misty has a really dirty looking hairy asshole. It actually made me want to barf. Female was working that shit though. BAM BAM BAM.
February 26th, 2006 at 7:26 pm - IP Man-Hash: 5475964f1d333
HW - you’re a sick puppy, how you even found your way here from whatever hole you crawled out of, I don’t know.
DS/Alan - I never said it was socially acceptable or acceptable at all. I said there are factors that need to be considered in terms of why people do it.
That’s all I’m going to say about it now because I’m pretty sure you know exactly what I mean. I’m not going to argue about this anymore so stop trying to get me to bite.
February 26th, 2006 at 8:20 pm - IP Man-Hash: 5630214f5d8bf
Yeah, I know I sit around after work trying to figure out how to mess with your head … I got that kind of spare time, sure …
As to what you said that is the most objectionable thing in this context, it was:
To which I responded that this was a feminist lie, and that if you wished to claim it, you needed to provide examples of pop-culture in which men cheating is viewed as normal, or even something that men do and women don’t.
Still waiting for those examples.
I suspect (though I’ve never seen a study on it) that you’ll find that women in TV, music, movies, and other pop-culture are portrayed as cheating sluts far more often than men.
Dakota Smith
February 26th, 2006 at 9:02 pm - IP Man-Hash: 535242cb96ac5
It is for good reason that all Fathers should have their children’s DNA checked to ensure that they are his own as it has been shown that up to 30% are not.
Women will lie about it to cover it up and feel not one once of discomfort over it.
You would have to have an understanding of responsibility to feel any guilt, one thing women are devoid of.
February 26th, 2006 at 9:25 pm - IP Man-Hash: 281c250662a27
If it is not acceptable, why consider factors?
Factors, reasons, justifications… are all shit.
The bottom line is… cheaters CHOOSE to cheat rather than CHOOSING to address the real problem.
February 26th, 2006 at 11:03 pm - IP Man-Hash: 5475964f1d333
Please stop posting to me, I don’t want to be rude, so I am answering your posts but I’d really rather not.
If you were cheated on, surely you’d want to get to the bottom of how it came about? I think it would be impossible for you to ever arrive at a completely clear picture of why your partner betrayed you, but surely you would question her, churn it over in your mind, think back etc. And, surely you would feel even more frustrated, angry and hurt if your partner refused to offer you any explaination for how it happened etc.
I am not saying you should accept rationalizations, but you are entitled to hear them and they will help you to work out how it happened, or the part you may have played implictly, in allowing the cheating to occur (assuming your partner isn’t a playgirl and/or nutter).
Humans are curious, they have a need to work things out (male and female). I doubt you would want your partner to simply say, “I cheated on you, sorry can’t say anything more about it” then walk off to make dinner.
You’d want to know why, wouldn’t you?
You might not get the truth, whatever that is, but there is no way on earth you wouldn’t by nature being considering all the factors that lead you up to that particular moment in your relationship. All I am saying is that some of those factors will be valid because human behaviour doesn’t just take place in a vacuum. Linear cause and effect may not exist, but circular cause-effect certainly does. Especially in human interaction.
February 27th, 2006 at 1:22 am - IP Man-Hash: 49c9ff889fded
The way I see “love” is a commitment, not an emotion. Emotions change, my commitments don’t. When I say I love my wife I mean it in the context of commitment. If I were to be cheated on I would take that in the context of “my commitment to you is now over.”
At that point any root causes are pretty much moot.
February 27th, 2006 at 6:28 am - IP Man-Hash: 281c250662a27
Exactly, Biff.
I would rather spend my time resolving and getting to the bottom of the problems in the relationship than waste my time trying to figure out why someone cheated. Female is completely missing the point. The problems in the relationship should be addressed. The way she is rationalizing it is akin to a child screaming for a lollipop. The child wants a lollipop so it screams and cries rather than just asking for the lollipop. The person wants to have the problems of the relationship addressed so they cheat to bring attention to those issues rather than addressing?!?! Yet another display of retarded lemming logic. Yes humans are curiousand want to work things out by nature. So therefore they should be curious and want to work things out when it comes to the problems in the relationship. Cheating is not a way to accomplish this.
February 27th, 2006 at 7:00 am - IP Man-Hash: 5630214f5d8bf
Female, not to put too fine a point on it, but you’ve already repeatedly demonstrated your rude nature. It’s not going to make anyone think any less of you if you simply walk away, at this point.
Here is one of the dramatic differences between men and women: in general, men don’t do what you’ve just described. Questioning someone, churning a situation in your mind, thinking back ad nauseum — these are all female characteristics not displayed by men in general.
When someone fucks us over, we don’t sit and agonize over it. We just say, “Ok, lesson learned. I won’t let this person fuck me over again.”
Again, Female, not to put too fine a point on it, but while it would be interesting on some level to know why a woman cheated on me, it ultimately boils down to a lack of character on her part. Any explanations she can offer will be some variation of:
“We were having problems, and lacking any moral and ethical conviction to our relationship, I decided to get somebody else to fuck me for a while.”
All the other details are just the specifics.
While interesting, the details will not alter the basic reason for the situation.
Dakota Smith
February 27th, 2006 at 9:52 am - IP Man-Hash: dbd61aebbf115
You are so right dakota.
The thing that you are essentially talking about Female is…..closure. Women seem to need closure, while men don’t. The funny thing about closure is, most women don’t ever accept it.
Lets say Female, you and I were a couple. During our relationship, I cheated on you, you ask me why I did such a thing. My response was, you started withdrawing affection from me. This withdrawl is manifesting itself in our intimate and sexual areas of our relationship. Needing this intimacy and affection, I go to someone else for what I am currently lacking. Now the thing is…..What are you going to do now?? Even if you do decide to forgive me, I will bet good money, that you would not rectify that part of our relationship. Why is that??!! Because, before I cheated, the current situation suited you just fine. Having it fine before, why reward my lack of character by changing?
If the situation was reversed, I wouldn’t care for the reason, why you cheated. Only thing I cared about was that you cheated. If the reason why you cheated was because I sometimes scratch myself inappropriately, and that was a big turn off for you. Well, if that was the case, just leave. I am not going to modify myself to reward your unjustifiable behavior.
Besides, don’t women love to say “you should love us, just the way we are!” Funny thing is……women feel this saying only applies to women.
Women are forever saying that this (insert relationship flaw here) is wrong, and then proceed to tell her man, how he must change this or that to make it better. No effort on her part, nothing that she can do to help, just the man having to change to make everything all better. What crap!
If a man were to actually point out areas ,where she is deficent, and pointed things that she could do to improve things. STAND BACK!! “How dare you say (Insert relationship flaw), and that this is my fault! You are not a “Real man”…..just a loser that can’t handle a “Real woman”" Not exactly in that many words, but you get the idea.
The Main point is “closure” is pure bullshit. Men have no use for it, and women need it to help with their “self-improvment”. However, women aren’t truly interested in self-improvment, just improvment that helps themselves.
February 27th, 2006 at 10:50 am - IP Man-Hash: 340da95569b9b
Hear hear.
February 27th, 2006 at 1:41 pm - IP Man-Hash: 8e69957d9934e
You scare me so much helpwanted. Loser. You have AIDS you piece of shit. Want my address? I have a bullet with your name. Same to you Ripper. In fact I’ll make the two of you buttfuck each other. You both should be used to that.
February 27th, 2006 at 1:43 pm - IP Man-Hash: 8e69957d9934e
Btw Helpwanted. I have a job and a master’s. Obviously you don’t judging by your name. Now bend over and take that cock in your ass.
February 27th, 2006 at 2:09 pm - IP Man-Hash: 8673d598503ef
Misty said:
Btw Helpwanted. I have a job and a master’s. Obviously you don’t judging by your name. Now bend over and take that cock in your ass.
-It certainly doesn’t sound like you spent any time in a school of higher learning Misty, rather it sounds like you just got out of kindergarden or middle school. Do you honestly think that swearing like that will actually make people think that you are educated? Instead why don’t be an ADULT (if thats what you truly are) and ignore people instead of diving to their level with such abandon. Also, I think thats been quite enough of the homo talk, it’s getting rather old.
February 27th, 2006 at 3:49 pm - IP Man-Hash: 527da1e4b605d
I am sure you have a masters. In what sucking a cock? LMAO you are a fucking retard. How many times are you going to say the same shit? Bullet for me huh? I thought you said you were going to beat my ass. Uh oh sounds like misty is getting scared. Typical over-weight woman shit. Go eat a snickers or two you will feel better.
If you don’t like the topics here just leave. You’re not going to offend anyone here or gain respect for women. All your going to do is piss yourself off even more.
I mean damn if you’re going to say something at least make it funny or insightful. Your comments are just plain RETARDED; not something from someone with a masters.
February 27th, 2006 at 4:35 pm - IP Man-Hash: 5475964f1d333
For gods sake, they are one and the same! This is what I am saying. People don’t just cheat, there are influencing factors related to what they don’t feel they are getting in their current relationship (which they want or need) or what they are getting from it (that they don’t want or need).
Just because you think I am rude or just because you know I am female, is no reason to be completely deaf to what I am saying.
February 27th, 2006 at 5:07 pm - IP Man-Hash: 5630214f5d8bf
And what we’re saying is that you’re wrong. They are not one and the same.
No, people who lack the character to work out the problems in the relationship cheat. The rationalizations they cling to in order to excuse their lack character are irrelvant.
We understand what you’re saying. You’re wrong, that’s all.
Dakota Smith
February 27th, 2006 at 5:09 pm - IP Man-Hash: 527da1e4b605d
Sure it is! Women have earned that right.
February 27th, 2006 at 7:02 pm - IP Man-Hash: 5475964f1d333
By your logic, people’s behaviour is all individualistic. Every person’s behaviour can simply be attributed to that individual, either their genes or their astrological birth chart or whatever. I don’t agree with you. Humans are social and behaviour doesn’t take place in a vacuum. Even with symptomatic conditions that result from genetic abnormalities, there is usually an environmental stimulus involved. You like playing the blame game as this obsolves you from responsibility/accountability/guilt etc. Unfortunately that also precludes you from being able to do anything to change the situation. Whatever.
February 27th, 2006 at 8:09 pm - IP Man-Hash: 5630214f5d8bf
Yes. Precisely.
Certainly, but an individual chooses how to deal with environmental stimuli. They are not locked into a specific pattern of behavior that says, “If this certain thing happens to me, then I must respond a certain way, no questions asked.”
If a woman cheats on me, it’s her responsibility, end of story. Similarly, if I cheat on a woman, it’s my responsibility, no one else’s. See the reason why I didn’t cheat on the skank during our marriage for details.
Dakota Smith