Seriously, cut out the insults and grow a brain.

Now, can I make fatcs you then if we are making assumptions and since I disagree with you? You are bald, overweight, and the only love you have is the 40 year old woman on eHarmony with 50 cats and who’s been divorced three times.

Tragic sweety. Every word I typed was the truth and you wish YOU could say the same. Happy New Year, dumbass.

Im 40. I’m 6′2, 215 , I look like Tom Cruise (yes, really), have all my hair and I’m fucking a 32 year-old extremely attractive Defense Attorney. Between the two of us, we make $600,000 a year (so not freakin’ idiots) and even SHE has the brains to MAKE SURE I tell her to “SHUT THE FUCK UP” on my dick when she’s being annoying.

. . . she wouldn’t have it another way, either.

Maybe YOUR life won’t work out,
and you are beginning to know it already,
but mine is right fucking spectacular, thanks.

Now get lost.
Aim higher.
And stop making pathetic excuses for yourself.

Chris said:

Hilary said:

Who are you to judge me?
I am telling the truth, so choose not to believe me, but I know that I never will have plastic surgery

I’ve got a better one for ya. . . .

Who are YOU to think that what you “SAY” is to be taken at face value???

How many times have you openly declared that you really want to meet an HONEST man(?) . . . who is 6′ TALL, SMART, DRIVEN, FUNNY, EDUCATED, EMPLOYED, HAS NICE ARMS, CAN CARRY A CONVERSATION and all that other horseshit you CLAIM is exactly what you are looking for.

You’ve got it all in your head already. Rehearsed and calculated. Exactly WHO he’s ’supposed’ to be , before you even MET the guy. You KNOW it’s “the truth”, and you are “NOT lying” about it. You even managed to convince yourself to believe 100% that if you met him, you would know it in a flash and the rest would be bliss-tory.

And then . . . .

A man like that could be standing RIGHT IN FRONT OF YOU, looking you straight in the eye . . . . and guess what . . .

UNLESS –>> He doesn’t tell you EXACTLY WHAT YOU WANT TO HEAR - EXACTLY WHEN YOU WANT TO HEAR IT . . . . you are gonna go through hell and high water to attempt to “disqualify” him as “not good enough for you.”

And if he DOES . . . you are suddenly standing in your own little puddle.

HOW FUCKED UP IS THAT.

Who are we to judge you????
We are MEN . . . who know this as FACT.

We don’t even need to know ANYTHING ABOUT YOU (as an individual) to know this to be a universal truth about women –>> NEVER - EVER - pay attention to what a woman ’says’ she wants.

EVER.

Because even if you make every effort to ‘make her happy’, and conform to every last specification she broadcast as the man with EVERYTHING . . . the deal breaker WILL ALWAYS BE –>> Did he tell her what she wants to hear . . . or did he NOT.

You know it.
And I know it.

That is ONE, SICK FUCKING TRUTH about you.
And noone ‘JUDGED you’. It’s just a FACT.

So you can quit whining like you were “JUDGED”, when every “truth” you utter is merely “TRANSPARENT”.

Fantastic.
Now, can I make fatcs you then if we are making assumptions and since I disagree with you? You are bald, overweight, and the only love you have is the 40 year old woman on eHarmony with 50 cats and who’s been divorced three times.
You know what I realize? Life isn’t Disney movies. Everything doesn’t work out in the end and I have prepared myself for life, just as many people have. Who knows, maybe in 25 years I’ll be the woman on eHarmony, but that’s life.
I’ve come to realize it’s not how I wish it were, such as being rich and famous, rather I have a pleasant life and am happy with it, I don’t need to devote a website to realizing how self-absorbed I am and make assumptions of an entire gender. Perhaps consider there are women equal to you, and go out and see not every woman is the one’s that you have experienced.

stonemonkey said:

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Hilary said:

Who are you to judge me?
I am telling the truth, so choose not to believe me, but I know that I never will have plastic surgery

I’ve got a better one for ya. . . .

Who are YOU to think that what you “SAY” is to be taken at face value???

How many times have you openly declared that you really want to meet an HONEST man(?) . . . who is 6′ TALL, SMART, DRIVEN, FUNNY, EDUCATED, EMPLOYED, HAS NICE ARMS, CAN CARRY A CONVERSATION and all that other horseshit you CLAIM is exactly what you are looking for.

You’ve got it all in your head already. Rehearsed and calculated. Exactly WHO he’s ’supposed’ to be , before you even MET the guy. You KNOW it’s “the truth”, and you are “NOT lying” about it. You even managed to convince yourself to believe 100% that if you met him, you would know it in a flash and the rest would be bliss-tory.

And then . . . .

A man like that could be standing RIGHT IN FRONT OF YOU, looking you straight in the eye . . . . and guess what . . .

UNLESS –>> He doesn’t tell you EXACTLY WHAT YOU WANT TO HEAR - EXACTLY WHEN YOU WANT TO HEAR IT . . . . you are gonna go through hell and high water to attempt to “disqualify” him as “not good enough for you.”

And if he DOES . . . you are suddenly standing in your own little puddle.

HOW FUCKED UP IS THAT.

Who are we to judge you????
We are MEN . . . who know this as FACT.

We don’t even need to know ANYTHING ABOUT YOU (as an individual) to know this to be a universal truth about women –>> NEVER - EVER - pay attention to what a woman ’says’ she wants.

EVER.

Because even if you make every effort to ‘make her happy’, and conform to every last specification she broadcast as the man with EVERYTHING . . . the deal breaker WILL ALWAYS BE –>> Did he tell her what she wants to hear . . . or did he NOT.

You know it.
And I know it.

That is ONE, SICK FUCKING TRUTH about you.
And noone ‘JUDGED you’. It’s just a FACT.

So you can quit whining like you were “JUDGED”, when every “truth” you utter is merely “TRANSPARENT”.

stonemonkey said:

And yes I agree philosophically we are all born with equal value…..but in real terms, practical day to day living, we are not. Understand that point before you comment. I know some men here may think philosophically that men are born better, I dont……but I do think that with some things men are better than woman.

I’m not denying that. I know that. And thats what Im saying. So if we are all born the same, then that means we should all be entitled and given the same rights and so forth and its what we choose to do with them as individuals that ultimately should determine our life. Sadly it doesn’t. That’s what I’m trying to say, and you seem like a nice normal person if thats what you believe.

To answer your question, no I am not gay

I dont recall asking that, but ok. Nice to know.

…..and I am argueing about it because I saw that comment as an overall flaw in your general arguement.

If you notice, it actually wasn’t an argument, I was just answering a question.

I also think that if a woman assumes something like that, its pretty fucked up. Would you agree with that?

No not really. Coz as a chick, when u see this site, u don’t get it. and all u see is anger and degradation for ur sex, so u automatically assume that people that support the site don’t like women, and if you dont like women, how could you love them? So you just assume that either they are celibate or gay. It seems logical from what angle we see the site at, I know its not reality, but u dont see that at first.

Plus your a woman commenting on this site……we will pick apart ANYTHING you say.

I know, thats kinda why I like posting here believe it or not. Im fine with it, its just the name calling and the plain out right rudeness that isn’t nice.

Debating wether people are equal or not based on performance and genetic information is a scientific, philosophical and intellectual debate…not materialism, or a materialistic debate.

And yes I agree philosophically we are all born with equal value…..but in real terms, practical day to day living, we are not. Understand that point before you comment. I know some men here may think philosophically that men are born better, I dont……but I do think that with some things men are better than woman.

To answer your question, no I am not gay…..and I am argueing about it because I saw that comment as an overall flaw in your general arguement.
I also think that if a woman assumes something like that, its pretty fucked up. Would you agree with that?

Plus your a woman commenting on this site……we will pick apart ANYTHING you say.

Also understand that we deal with a lot of generalisations here. YOU may not do any of the things that we complain about but that doesnt mean the majority doesnt. I would not place my fioncee in the same category as the woman we bitch about here. But again, I disagree with some of the things she does or thinks which I attribute to her gender.

Debating wether people are equal or not based on performance and genetic information is a scientific, philosophical and intellectual debate…not materialism, or a materialistic debate.

And yes I agree philosophically we are all born with equal value…..but in real terms, practical day to day living, we are not. Understand that point before you comment.

To answer your question, no I am not gay…..and I am argueing about it because I saw that comment as an overall flaw in your general arguement.
I also think that if a woman assumes something like that, its pretty fucked up. Would you agree with that?

Plus your a woman commenting on this site……we will pick apart ANYTHING you say.

stonemonkey said:

Clair “You’re homosexuals, because although you say you don’t hate women, we don’t see any love…”

I stand by my point….you are still saying that I MUST be gay, because Im not showing love towards woman. Ergo, you think that homosexual men have no love for woman….which is stereotyping a whole community.

Gosh you are being very argumentative..over nothing. You have completely taken this out of context. I answered a question of how women were coming to this assumption. I gave two answers. You took one and assumed that I believed it (which I don’t). You’re getting overly defensive, whats that about?

Niggers are cool…..is this statement not racist because I do not express anger, hatred or fear?

This statement can be considered racist, depending on the social context. Generally, the word “nigger” is seen as derogitive and an insult, micking the days of slavery or what else, so unless this is intended through the word “niggers” then, no it would not be racist.

And if you assume that a man must be gay because he doesnt show love towards a woman thats ignorance. Its also a bit homophobic if you think that. One of your criteria for defining a gay man is that he hates woman.

1) I don’t actully have any evidence that nayone here is gay
2) I’m assuming most aren’t, who else would spend this much time thinking about women?
3) One of MY criteria for contemplating whether or not someone is gay does not actually involve woman hating. Actully it ight… I don’t know, depends on the circumstance
4) I don’t think all homosexuals hate the opposite sex (I know many gay people and they are some of the livest, bubbley and fun loving people I know. And they get on quite well with the oppsite sex, more so then their own)

We are born equal…..more liberal minded hippie dippy crap. Bullshit, if we were born equal then why arent you Einstein, why cant you run as fast as Carl Johnson, or lift as much weight as a man. Thats because we are not born equal.

*sigh* You are born equal to EVERYONE. You were born naked and so were they. People are different, and different factors in the individuals life determines their ultimate outcome. You’re talking equal in a materialistic sense. I’m not. I’m talking more in a philosophical sense, everyone is equal, we have all peed our pants. No one is exempt. Don’t get me wrong, I don’t think a serial rapist is on the same level as Mother Theresa. However, we are equal in the sense that we deserve the same rights and responsibilities…in the beginning (birth).

So lets get something straight, there is a difference between equality and EQUAL RIGHTS. I totally agree with equal rights and that no matter your gender, colour creed or ability you have the right to a good life………I do not agree with equality.

This is my definition of equality in practice.

Would you date a fat ugly guy with a personality that you liked, or a handsome good looking guy with a personality you liked? We all know the answer….and why, because they are not equal.

To be honest, if there were two guys that liked me, and I really liked them, I wouldn’t go out with either. Purely coz I think it would be wrong to go out with someone while I liked another. But thats just me.

http://news.bbc.co.uk/2/hi/uk_news/education/4183166.stm

I stand by my point….you are still saying that I MUST be gay, because Im not showing love towards woman. Ergo, you think that homosexual men have no love for woman….which is stereotyping a whole community.

Clair “This is not homophobic, I do not express anger, hatred or fear within this comment”

Niggers are cool…..is this statement not racist because I do not express anger, hatred or fear?

I agree that most stereotyping or racism etc has elements of fear, anger or hatred, but as I have just demonstrated, it doesnt necessarily have to. Thats because you forgot IGNORANCE. And if you assume that a man must be gay because he doesnt show love towards a woman thats ignorance. Its also a bit homophobic if you think that. One of your criteria for defining a gay man is that he hates woman.

I love woman, but that doesnt mean I have to put up with their crap. Women whinge that they want to be treated like an equal, and when men do that they complain. So if a woman gives an opinion, and a man disagrees with her,
1. Dont assume hes gay
2. Hes treating your point with enough respect to argue with you
3. So dont bitch about possibly being wrong about something.

Another thing you also need to understand is that this site is a safe place for males to vent their frustration. Because as much as we say the world is all equal etc etc, there is no way most of us could get away with saying this stuff to your face….most woman would charge us with sexual harrassment, sexism, being pigs, and probably slap us (and because your a woman Im not allowed to return the favour).

We are born equal…..more liberal minded hippie dippy crap. Bullshit, if we were born equal then why arent you Einstein, why cant you run as fast as Carl Johnson, or lift as much weight as a man. Thats because we are not born equal. I agree that society places a value on people, but part of that value comes from simple genetic ability. Yes you can learn things and improve, but there is a limit to this learning because of genetics. We are a combination of nature and nurture.

So lets get something straight, there is a difference between equality and EQUAL RIGHTS. I totally agree with equal rights and that no matter your gender, colour creed or ability you have the right to a good life………I do not agree with equality. Would you date a fat ugly guy with a personality that you liked, or a handsome good looking guy with a personality you liked? We all know the answer….and why, because they are not equal.

(and dont start a whole conversation about beauty is in the eye of the beholder debate…..you get the point Im trying to make)