Why the fuck do women once having a child think that they can just say “fuck it” to life and just cash it all in and hang up the boots of any shred of usefullness?

Look women having a baby isn’t painful compared to what men have to go through their whole life so for that women I say: Fuck off and quit complaining because you have it really fucking easy so I would’nt be gloating how you can push a small sized watermelon out your pussy.
Look I’ve seen some shit online where chicks stick fruit and watermelons and plastic babies and other round objects up there glory holes and then push them back out again all without any crying or screaming whatsoever, which leads me to believe that so-called childbirth is a goddamned walk in the park and women are just making a big deal out of it so they can use that as the most ovverated cop out phrase of all time: I don’t have to do that because: I had a baby. or Iknow everything because I had a baby OR Having a baby is the most painful thing in the world, apart from actually having to work, everyday for most of the day for most of your life like men do.

I think that “having a baby” is the most ovverated cop-out that women use to validate themselves on the planet from day to day.
Why don’t women do something more strenuous for more than 20 minutes of their entire lives, because honestly having a baby doesn’t taking fucking 4 to 8 to 1000 hours to have women so shut the fuck up youre fooling anyone it takes like 20 minutes of your entire life, Earth to women: BIG FUCKING DEAL YOU INCONSIDERATE BITCHES!

Chris said:

@DICKTORIA

If Dick wanted to be a journalist, he would have been a journalist.
He became a published author instead.

You’re a woman, so you don’t know what that means because you think going out and “getting trashed” is some kind of achievement.

Aim higher, cunt.

Menarebetterthanwomen.

getting trashed is fun.
you should try it.
you might be little nicer.
hahaha
never mind thats impossible.

If Dick wanted to be a journalist, he would have been a journalist.
He became a published author instead.

You’re a woman, so you don’t know what that means because you think going out and “getting trashed” is some kind of achievement.

Aim higher, cunt.

Menarebetterthanwomen.

Luka said:

@Necro - I was asking the question out of interest because it is too frequently assumed that men don’t want to rear children, and would rather have a career (as you said, to support the family - earn the crust as it were), so I asked to find out if men did want to stay at home to raise children instead of a career.

I was trying to explain why some men would, but others wouldnt. Bit flimsy I suppose.

It just means the same “men” who would want to be babysitters are the ones who would be infaithful.

Alex said:
@Evileddy- I wrote what I did under the assumption that the couple with children is married, and that both wanted to keep the child. In that case, why shouldn’t a father help to raise the child they both chose to have?

Don’t most women complain that they do the same work as men.. but get paid less?

Therefore.. the man should work to make enough money to provide for the whole family.

The man working is the best way to ensure his brood bio-unit ( aka a female ) has enough resources to nurture his child.

Luka said:

I wonder, how many men here would prefer to stay at home and raise his own children rather than have a career? Do many men get such an option?
Just a thought.

From a psychological point of view, it’s understandable a man would want to work for his kids. Man has always been looked as the provider, the hunter (Yes female lions hunt, but we aren’t lions aren’t we).

Now Im not one for steriotypical ideas. A woman wants to work, go ahead. Good luck to you. Me and Dick don’t clash, FYI.

But primal instincts lead there. To us being the hunter and woman being the keeper.

Luka said:

I wonder, how many men here would prefer to stay at home and raise his own children rather than have a career? Do many men get such an option?
Just a thought.

Well, at least we won’t run around crying all day that we’re being oppressed because we can’t be domestic-daddies.

I agree that women have a difficult choice to make. However, I think the worst offender of condemnation towards women who juggle both children and work is in fact other women, not men.

I don’t buy that the pressures of family vs. career are entirely put upon a woman anymore than they are placed upon a man. I believe there is a stigma around a man staying at home looking after the children… it is assumed that he is a lazy bum that doesn’t want to work. There is also the stigma of a woman being a selfish cow because she leaves her children in daycare while she pursues a career. Are these assumptions fair in all situations?

I wonder, how many men here would prefer to stay at home and raise his own children rather than have a career? Do many men get such an option?
Just a thought.

Female said:

KellyMac, you whined about feminist sites blocking comments, women going to work and putting their kids in daycare and feminism in general, and your kids crying when you go to work.

Whats so untrue about this Female? I have been on several feminists website. I posted facts like men making sacrifices ie. serving the nation in national service etc but all my posts were censored. Even on issues like Wimbledon… feminists call it a “triumph”… which is fucking bullshit. So really, care to tell us what is your point all about?

I am surprised I even had to point out all these to you, oh supercilious Kelly. You are obviously a better woman than I am.

Any woman who admits that feminism is a disease that has to be stamped out is better than you. I have read her page through the URL of her nick. While I disagree with certain issues, I concur that feminism is a plague thus i can conclude she > you.

@Evileddy- I wrote what I did under the assumption that the couple with children is married, and that both wanted to keep the child. In that case, why shouldn’t a father help to raise the child they both chose to have?

@KellyMac- Evolutionary psychology is all well and good except for the fact that apparently it missed a few people. I know plenty of women who would be miserable if they had no career outside of being a housewife and mother, my mother and (once I’m of marrying age) myself included (although my mother did stay at home a few years for her children’s sake). I know men who don’t fit the caveman protector-and-provider stereotype either.

Men who had to work hard, long hours of manual labor decades/centuries ago did indeed have it bad. However, modern men (or at least educated modern men) can now pursue pretty much whatever career they choose, with the assumption that they can also be parents while someone else (their spouse) takes on almost all parenting responsibilities. For women who want a career it’s much more complicated, and they shouldn’t be attacked as “those selfish career women” for trying to find a balance between career and family. Yes, children always come before career, achievements, personal fulfillment, etc., but I see no reason for women to completely abandon those things if some solution can be found and the father can share in the responsibilities of parenting.