If i was willing to be with a person, i would have to respect them, i wouldn’t have it any other way.

I would have to be loyal, and they would have to be loyal

Both of those things are a requirement at all times, and i believe those standards should not only be imposed on my partner. But every human on this earth. i wish

I did not really want to get into this, but since you have pointed it out twice; i am a masochist.

My form of masochism is psychologically bias more than physically bias to pain This means that i get off on males showing me negativity in sexual ways. Like treating me like shit.

Basically anything that lowers my self-value, specifically in a sexual and aggressive way has the potential get me aroused.

When i am not aroused, or in the right mind set to be aroused. comments or actions that are aimed to lower my self-worth, or treat me badly, will do nothing but make me feel like shit of have low self-esteem.

That is the difference between being submissive in the bedroom and being submissive as a person, one is quite harmful the other arousing.

I don’t feel like i act like a cunt or ask allot when I’m not getting fucked, but that would be for you to decide.

Fucking me like a disposable doll? That is pretty degrading, and pretty arousing. But if that happened to me; I would be very hurt.

I was talking about leadership, a man leading and how it actually doesn’t mean anything in this context. All you’re really talking about, is who is more adamant –I am getting my way- and that’s not always going to happen lol

“Beg for anal rape” isn’t that kinda er… stupid? You can’t rape the willing lol

I know what you mean, I’m just pointing out that leadership in the sense you’re talking about, doesn’t actually mean anything. There is nothing tangible from it or any set things to follow. There is no hierarchy she’s not following orders, your letting her do as she likes. As for important decisions, she either compromises and does w/e the hell you wanted to do, or she leaves.

If she respects you, and cares, and knows it is important to you. she will most likely go with it; despite her being against it.

But at some point, she is going to ask the same of you, with something your against. This happens in any relationship.

I can understand the ideology of “lead” or “man of the house” but in reality, that is nothing but how the male feels, his self-esteem. WHICH IS FINE. We females have tons of emotional BS as well.

Power -not always physical-, honesty, respect, integrity even mercy are all admirable leadership qualities. But they are not male specific traits either lol

Best thing about anal is within 4 hours after doing it its as tight as a virgin arse again.

That’s not going to earn you respect, but it would get you my pants.

True, some of us men prefer to provide for the woman, while she stays at home, takes care of the kids etc. While others, dont mind a woman working. But in both cases, a man leads in the relationship. He makes all the important decisions, does not look for a woman’s approval. These characteristics of a leader earns him a woman’s respect. It is in a man’s nature to lead from the front, because that’s what makes a man. And some of you whimmin might lie or bitch about it, but you know thats what you look for in a man. Im not talking about being full of himself, but in control and you know women look for a man who is strong and protective. Well, there you go, that is a leader. I dont know how to further simplify it for you, you sex crazy stalker. But, I have done my best. And cut the bullshit about a man’s ego, whimmin are the one who buy into that feminism crap and try to put down men, because they’re too scared to deal with the truth: men are better than women.

Having said that, you know you’re my favorite stalker and all and I love how you obsess over me. But atleast try and make an effort to understand. If you still dont? I couldnt care less…

And btw, the female cant do whatever the hell she likes. Some of us men dont mind a woman working, as long as she respects/submits to her man, doesnt rebel or think she’s better than him. On the other hand, some of us men prefer to be the providers/breadwinners in the relationship. Whether a man provides for the woman or the woman also has a job and works like man, it does not change the fact that the man always leads and the female follows. You arent even making an effort to understand, you just act like a whiny lil girl and ask stupid questions.

As far as that other shit you mentioned, I told you before a man is self dependent and does not depend on whimmin for any financial support. It is in a man’s nature to protect and care for the woman, if she is worth it. If she earns his respect by being loyal, respectful and trustworthy. Now, stop being a dumb cretin. You know you’re my favorite stalker and all and I love the way you keep obsessing over me. Ok, I know you mean no harm, but you are wrong in your views and honestly you show no intelligence. Still dont get what I said about lead? I couldnt care less…

For some of you smart ass whimmin, leading just means a man providing for a woman. That is partly true. I dont know how to put it in a way that you could understand. In a relationship, the man makes all the important decisions, meaning he does not look for a woman’s approval or opinion but leads from the front. He is in complete control and the woman follows. Some of us men prefer women who we can provide for, the kind of housewife who stays at home and takes care of the kids. While others dont mind a woman who works. The cardinal rule in both cases being: the woman should respect/submit to her man.

Otherwise, no point in getting into a relationship with her. I dont know how to simplify it for you. Maybe, instead of you asking stupid questions all the time, you can try to understand what I’ve written a little harder. You’re not even worth it, if you dont make the effort. Btw, girlie, like I said a man is not dependent on a female for things like money etc.

And a man probably wouldnt waste his time on females who think they are better than him. In a relationship, a man would earn more than a woman. He doesnt take shit from any female. Still dont get it? I could care less…

So a girl can work and do as she likes, what the hell does lead even mean?

“As long as it’s something that does not involve the man in losing his self-respect.”

In the context used, that sounds like anything that would hurt his ego, for example earning more money, or being better on anything he cares about; Is wrong. -Not including all the females who abuse and take advantage of men, but normal females-

Is that right? I may have worded it in a negative way, but i fully understand how important that self-respect is.

As for posting on this site? i feel i am quite respectful, especially considering my treatment, and the Dick contradicts himself at least twice in the rule, he has a forum for female hate mail, on a site they are not allowed on, and were not allowed to speak in a free idea’s forum, because apparently we are fascists lol

“Independent”, in what sense? You had mentioned earlier, you were attracted to the strong, dominant alpha male type and hinted that you liked letting the man take the lead. Now you contradict yourself, saying some other shit. But, you dont want to get into a relationship at all because you feel a man will let you down or you have trust issues. You are just thinking like a feminist and have feminist ideals. You want a man to lead and you want to be dominated but feel respected as a person at the same time. You said it earlier, now you just dont want to admit it.

Maybe not all females are submissive, some of them try to be like men. But a female by nature is submissive and feminine. So, those “sheepish” females are actually the ones that are respected and are always the kind of women we men want in our life. For a woman to stand by her man is not sheepish, for her to be loyal and at the same time no one is stopping her from what she wants to do. The only sheepish, shallow ones are the ones that blindly follow feminism and pretend they are “independent”. Even feminist cunts would be nowhere without men.

This site is a horrible example of myself in that regard though as i am disrespected on my gender alone.

I’m glad you posted what you did; you have convinced me that you are more open about how a female is “required” to be then your prior posts conveyed such messages.

My personality -unless in the bedroom- is far too independent to let a man -or anyone- lead me around ALL the time lol but there are plenty of sheepish girls out there so you will have no trouble finding them i am sure.

Do you believe all females should be submissive? (Your meaning of the word not mine) or is that simply your personal preference?

Jesus christ, let the female decorate the kitchen. She can cook and clean too, who can have a problem with that? You just dont get it, the man leads in a relationship, in the sense, that he protects her and she in turn respects him. Im not talking about insignificant shit like who cooks or decorates the kitchen. The man has all the power in the relationship and if the woman wants to feel valued and respected as a person, she must earn it by proving her loyalty and respecting her man. You are just an obnoxious lil girl, who cant understand a simple fact like men dont hate women or believe all females are feminist cunts. It is only learning to avoid the cunts who fuck men over to serve their own selfish desires and rejecting the feminists. Its making sure normal people know that feminism does not benefit either sex, especially not women.

As for you assuming “you and I would not even look at each other”. Well, I guess you can stop stalking me then. Men have a lot more to lose, when it comes to trusting a woman. Females nowadays just cheat for the fun of it, dont even think twice about it. Even stats show women cheat a lot more than men. I agree with you, that a female can just leave a relationship, if she isnt happy or is not the type of woman the man wants. That does not make her a cunt. Her forcing him to change, manipulating him or tryin to take his manhood away, does make her a cunt brainwashed by the feminism bullshit.