In YOUR experience.

The PROBLEM with that is that, your anecdote doesn’t equal an average.

In fact, while I don’t see much in the way of definitiveness on the subject, a COMPOSITE of anecdotes and research shows that yes, whimmin are “better” than men at holding a grudge (consistent, though not conclusive evidence).

Generally, because whimmin TEND to be more attuned to others’ feeeeelings, they are ALSO more attuned to their OWN (as such, even little things tend to push whimmin’s buttons more…and they RARELY forget them…or completely let them go>>>>>>>>>
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could this be just ONE reason whimmin generally prefer to work for MALE bosses?).

“men however, will have wars about things that they claim happened thousands of years ago and are no longer relevant, like israel and the bible. men will cry about how fucking hard it is and how much work it is and how much their finger hurts when they get a paper cut, and at the slightest offense, will come to blows, especially if they are drunk.”

Current conflict, regardless of history, goes well beyond a GRUDGE (it’s about territorial rights, resources…things far more significant to far more people than whimmin’s individual resentments).

Men take WAY more risks than you, in FAR more dangerous jobs; yet you expect an example of a paper cut to fly?

Yes – men will come to blows (but then, on average, let it go SOONER).

Men are also close to 85% of the computer scientists in the United States (in that context, whimmin “suck” at computers…compared to men).

StartingToGetItYet?

where do you get your information from? in my experience it’s the men who don’t know their arse from their dicks and panic like pussies when anything goes wrong. i’ve been the one that calmed everyone down, cleaning up their messes and then, after being put down by the arseholes for not reading their minds even more than I already had, still had to deal with my own shit.

i’ve found that women are bitchy in a pulse like fashion (hot and cold), but can be friends like that forever.

men however, will have wars about things that they claim happened thousands of years ago and are no longer relevant, like israel and the bible. men will cry about how fucking hard it is and how much work it is and how much their finger hurts when they get a paper cut, and at the slightest offense, will come to blows, especially if they are drunk.

men are wimps. they are weak.

well, at least from my experience. but unlike some of the commenters on this site i’m willing to acknowledge that the universe is bigger than my experience so maybe that’s not always true.

perhaps you lot should do the same.

More to my point – the (general) difference between men and whimmin regarding conflict, is that while men may have misunderstandings, we usually settle them quickly (even if occassionally, violently); while whimmin will go on-and-on with their silly behaviors…grudges…and henceforth probably never be at peace with the “opposing” party again.

Thankfully, you and Raj7 are MEN. So while not (quite…ha!) perfect, we are…

BetterThanWhimmin

�I speak here because it lacks constraints from either gender.�

This I said because it means I can speak freely without the site editing what I say. What you might have read into it is your doing. Speaking as someone that did move a few weights when I was younger. And someone that ‘tried’ life a little. Don’t get ‘angry’ at the drop of a hat.

And I have to say. Considering my piss poor education. The adversaries I’ve come across so far have been found wanting. Being polite.

Example: You get a good job. Another woman gets one alongside you but she didn’t get it because she was the best candidate. You now have to work harder. Your position has less value because it’s now measured by her standard.

Wonder why men are pissed?