Child-Man in the Promised Land: Response
Recently myself and MenAreBetterThanWomen.com were mentioned in an article about the maturity of today’s twenty-something male culture. Since the article was written by a woman, not only was it petty, wish-washy, and wrong by a country mile; it was also focused entirely on marriage.
Marriage and a willingness to be married is not the definition of maturity. It’s actually the opposite. Unless screaming at the people you love because some pastries are two hours late is the benchmark of maturity. I’m pretty sure it isn’t, though the article didn’t mention either way.
Men are better than women at being 20. This holds today as much as it ever did — including in 1965. Here is my response to Child-Man in the Promised Land.
It sucks.
First of all, “child-man” is awkward. “Man-child” rolls off the tongue as smooth as man-silk. When you’re building a case against people who act a certain way — something called prejudice — it’s important to make your slur as catchy as possible.
The guiltiest a person can be is when they’re a catch phrase.
Kay Hymowitz defines a “child-man” as a modern young man who “hangs out in a hormonal limbo between adolescence and adulthood.” I’m pretty sure adult men want to fuck the shit out of Jessica Alba too, so I can say for certain that the modern twenty-something man is mired safely in hormonal adulthood.
But here’s something else. Did anyone else notice that Kay’s last name looks a lot like “Hymen”? Gross.
According to Kay Hymen-owitz, playing video games every night and laughing at fart jokes is a not only a lazy thing to do, it’s also the mark of a bad father and inattentive husband. This, she claims, is different to the young men of 1965 who allegedly aspired to nothing but fatherhood and bill paying.
“It’s 1965 and you’re a 26-year-old white guy. You have a factory job…you’re married…one kid…you’re an adult!” - Kay Hymowitz
In other words, today’s men no longer aspire to become anthropomorphic ATM’s.
Fred Flintstone
Fred Flintstone says more about the twenty-something male culture of 1965 than I ever could.
“Why can’t they invent something for us to marry instead of women?” - Fred Flintstone, circa 1960
That’s straight from the zeitgeist of an era. There is no difference in a general aversion to women and marriage between the men of today and the men of yesteryear — and the men of 10,000 BC. Marriage is fucked and stupid and women are annoying. Nothing is ever going to change that. Least of all video games and Maxim.
Remember the Loyal Order of the Water Buffalo? I do because I’m a man and I remember all history — even the parts that make me look stupid. Women don’t remember any history — especially the parts that make them look stupid. That’s where most date rape stories come from. Remember that next time a woman opens her yap and starts inventing history on the fly.
A woman’s definition of history is exactly how badly she wishes the present was different. If she’s really fat and she really hates herself for it, then a woman will remember a time when beauty was radically different than it is currently. This was never the case. Fat broads were always the boner equivalent of shit-Kryptonite. Two hundred years from now, no one is going to look back at an iPod commercial and think everyone in the twentieth century was attracted to black silhouettes who could keep a groove.
If a woman feels cheated that her mother was happier being a wife than she’ll ever be as a journalist, she invents a halcyon past of chivalry absolving herself of all personal responsibility. Spend more time at the gym and less on your resumes, ladies. Prince Charming doesn’t care how fast you type.
Fred Flintstone is possibly the greatest cartoon father ever to live. But based on the above quote, Hymen-owitz would probably call him more of a nasty and bitter misogynist than she called me. It sounds to me like a degree in Cartoons and Cereal teaches you more than one in Journalism and Women’s Studies.
There is no such thing as the emergence of a “child-man”, and I’ll be fucked if some woman thinks she’s going to criticize today’s young men for anything. Men have a natural disdain for women and an understood “betterness” over them. That’s what happens when the thing you stick your dick in also happens to suck at everything. The Loyal Order of the Water Buffalo was the MenAreBetterThanWomen.com of the stone age.
Men: 1, Women: 0.
Video Games
Video games are a lot like a movie except you have to be smarter than a woman to figure out how to interact with them. That’s why women hate them. Video games are proof that men are smarter than women.
Have you ever seen a woman play a video game? She’ll just sit there staring stupidly at the television as her character dies or her guitar hero fails spectacularly. She won’t even mash the buttons. No matter how you spin it, inaction is the essence of failure. To a woman, video games are a mirror that reflect her soul.
Video games are a mark of immaturity? Hardly.
The video games men play are rated explicitly beyond the purchase of children. They’re violent and cruel and they should be. Men ourselves are violent and cruel. No woman was cruel enough to send millions of young men overseas in World War II to die in mustard gas and chemical infernos in order to save an entire race of people. No woman did, and no woman would have. Women can’t even leave abusive spouses, how the fuck could one have handled Hitler?
Just because something has “games” in it does not mean it’s childlike and simple. “Women” has “men” in it, but that doesn’t mean they’re worth more than two shits in a diarrhea storm.
Men: 2, Women: 0.
Weddings
Making a list of things you want people to buy you is something children do. But when “grown-up” women do it, it’s called a Bridal Registry. And why the fuck do full grown adults need a seating chart? That’s childish.
A woman’s addiction to wedding fantasies starts strongly when she’s a child and become more obsessive and psychotic over time. Nothing about that resembles maturation. It’s the opposite. Women are the only creature on Earth that becomes less mature with experience.
Weddings are the ultimate in childishness. It’s a birthday party with two extra zero’s on the bill. Instead of birthday hats, a wedding has suits and gowns. Instead of a clown, a wedding has a priest and a string quartet. Instead of a spoiled brat, a wedding has a bride.
Men: 3, Women: 0.
Sex
Getting laid is the meaning of life. Everything else is garnish. Garnish for women so that they don’t have to feel like sex toys even though they are.
When it comes to the opposite sex, the only thing men are concerned about is getting busy as often and as cheaply and as nakedly as possible. And sex is so contrary to childishness that it’s illegal to do it with them. That’s called being a pedophile and it will get you on Dateline.
Men love sex and sex itself is so mature that children are barred from exposure to it. Whether it’s internet pornography or even swear words. That means if you like sex, you’re one mature motherfucker.
Hand holding, love poems, soul mates, and the childish bone meal that make up women’s delusions about sex are the fodder for school yard romance all around the world. Now who’s childish? Fucking women are childish.
Men: 4, Women: 0.
Baby Boomers
Today’s young men are free to fuck around because there are still a shit load of baby boomers around running the show. That’s the real truth of this issue. Maturity is like a gun. Just because you have it, doesn’t mean you have to use it. In fact, using it inappropriately will sometimes make you look like a humorless dick.
“[There's a] New Girl Order, hyperachieving in both school and an increasingly female-friendly workplace…” - Kay Hymenowitz
Hyper achieving women? How many women invented Google? The same number of women who’ve fucked me for free. None.
The fact is the new generation of men are holding up the internet with man-sized shoulders like a virtual Atlas. Women know nothing of what it takes to run a civilization and Kay Hymen-owitz is no different. Next time you need to attach a pdf to an email or a spreadsheet to a free porno website, who are you going to ask?
I’ll bet my cock it won’t be a young woman.
Furthermore, the workplace has always been female-friendly. Except these days, women think they don’t like getting slapped on the ass even though they really do. That’s called playing “hard to get”.
Men: 5, Women: 0.
Responsibility
“You wouldn’t know how to become an adult even if you wanted to? Maybe a beautiful princess will come along and show you.” -Kay Hymen-owitz
While I was on the Dr. Phil program sharing a single bathroom with 4 ladies — a fucking nightmare — Dr. Phil told me that all I needed was a good woman. I guess that makes Dr. Phil a raving misogynist and a perpetual child-man as well. Even if it’s true that this newage “child-man” needs only the love of a good woman to mature him like anti-free wine, that means precisely this:
There are no good women.
All women are cheating whores. At best they can be trained out of it, but really what’s the point? Pet ownership is a lot of work. Don’t forget that piece of advice if you do intend to do something stupid like get married.
Men: 6, Women: 0.
Single mothers
“…the plight of the single mothers means nothing to him” -Kay Hymen-owitz
There is no “plight of single mothers”. All a single mother has to do is open her legs and she’ll fall vagina first into money.
Single mothers are all either dumb or bitches. That’s how they end up single. Since whoring got them into the mess, it can certainly get them out.
Men: 7, Women: 0.
Manclusion
1965 wasn’t the end all be all of family structure. In the 1800’s every wealthy man had a mistress. Bill Gates would have had one for every night of the year.
“For the problem with child-men is that they’re not very promising husbands and fathers. They suffer from a proverbial “fear of commitment,” another way of saying that they can’t stand to think of themselves as permanently attached to one woman.”
Either that or said women are all total bitches. A fear of commitment is like a fear of loud noises. In one case, your brain is telling you to get the fuck off the train tracks or you’ll soon be wearing your ass as a hat. In the other case, your brain is telling you to get the fuck off the aisle because after the divorce you’ll have only your ass to wear as a hat.
No one asks for a commitment without preparing to fuck you with surcharges. If you could fuck your cell phone, the provider contract and a marriage contract would be identical.
“That adds up to tens of millions more young men blissfully free of mortgages, wives, and child-care bills.”
It sure does. Men are more mature than women; seven to zero. Men win.
Child-Man in the Promised Land - Someone call the Wahmbulence
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March 23rd, 2008 at 1:53 am - IP Man-Hash: e0f0a45876d85
Sarah, I’m 8 beers into a twelve pack and even if you were hitting the tread mill I still wouldn’t let your sea-hag-looking, man-face-having ass spend the night. Though your friend Colleen is starting to look good about now.
Its too bad for these girls that the laws today cause a man to risk going to jail for laying down the rules physically. They’ll probably never learn the joy of having a man that cares about them enough to make them shut the fuck up. And they’re practically begging for it.
March 23rd, 2008 at 2:29 am - IP Man-Hash: 4b8494f25ae28
Begging for it with their ankles behind their ears doing the pretzel dance. Unfortunately, they have very poor memory and tend to confuse rape with revenge-sex, surprise sex, or even no sex at all. If you’re a slut - well, no shit you’re going to get what you’re begging for.
See: Duke Rape
March 23rd, 2008 at 3:14 am - IP Man-Hash: 8aaaf63214fd3
how much?
March 23rd, 2008 at 3:28 am - IP Man-Hash: 4b8494f25ae28
Yep, titty shots. My assumptions were correct. Call it scientific intuition.
Other assumptions correct:
The script-writer of ‘Juno’ was a prostitute.
Miss Teen USA would not learn from her mistakes.
That black-haired slut wears a lot of black nail polish.
And she has fucked up more than once like that - but I never guessed she fucked up live during a football halftime show!
March 23rd, 2008 at 4:59 am - IP Man-Hash: e0f0a45876d85
One more thing, Sarah, I hope you realize that Ron Paul voted against the violence against women act. Something I have great respect towards him for. Do you?
March 23rd, 2008 at 6:15 am - IP Man-Hash: a85bbc5165dff
I cannot believe this ridiculous site. It is completely ignorant and hateful. What you are really mad at is the institutions and gender roles which limit you, or perhaps it’s more simple, you hate yourselves. I won’t assume that though. I will say that you are the kind of guys that make me wish I was a lesbian. You do realize that it was a 50/50 chance that you could have been born as a girl? What if you had been born as a girl? What if you had been born as a girl and raped or abused? What if you had been born as a girl in a country where women were not given any rights? Society sets the rules–and who rules society? White men. Why do a lot of women act the way they do, because the rules (which white men set) taught them how to act. Not to mention, men are expected to fulfill unrealistic roles of masculinity, which, once again, white men set. It’s one thing to hate a small minority, which you may not come into contact with as often, but it’s another to hate half the population. You probably have a pretty miserable life to say the least.
March 23rd, 2008 at 6:24 am - IP Man-Hash: a85bbc5165dff
p.s. You are encouraging the very stereotypes that you seem to despise. Shouldn’t we say fuck the gender roles as individuals and live our lives? It is statistically proven that men and women as individuals are more diverse than men and women as a group. This shows that gender does not come close to defining a person. It is only one aspect of our cultural education, and an even smaller percentage is attributed to our biological characteristics (if you research this, you will find that if something is to be labeled as biological, it has to be true across all cultures…gender roles are not the same cross-culturally…there are cultures where women exhibit more “masculine” behaviors and men exhibit more “feminine” behaviors, which indicates that gender is more socially learned than biological).
March 23rd, 2008 at 6:47 am - IP Man-Hash: 4b8494f25ae28
She’s talking out of her ass - white men this, white men that. It’s easy to go on hating on whitey, but the fact is that the prison system will need to recruit about 9 whores for every one man in prison if it wants to achieve equality.
We must have an equal prison population if we are to have an equal society. We must have equal treatment, conviction, and imprisonment of girls in unisex prisons and unisex cells if we are to achieve equality. Everyone must be treated as an equal - we must end this gender segregation in sports and rather recruit based purely on athletic prowess.
We will achieve equality because we all are equal - do not let anyone tell you her anatomy compensates for her physical, mental, and emotional weakness. Judge and convict everyone only by their character. Euthanize the dangerously stupid.
March 23rd, 2008 at 6:57 am - IP Man-Hash: 4b8494f25ae28
So this Ron Paul I’ve been hearing about isn’t all hype. I’ll need to check that out.
March 23rd, 2008 at 7:33 am - IP Man-Hash: e0f0a45876d85
Look up his voting record from the beginning of his terms in congress to the present day. You will be floored. He has never once voted for a single thing that expands government beyond the what is stated in the constitution of the United States. They call him “Dr. No” in the senate.
The Violence Against Women Act is unconstitutional because it gives one group of people more rights than another. That violates equal protection under the law. Remember EQUALITY you dumb cunts? Nah, you were never interested in that were you?
March 23rd, 2008 at 8:06 am - IP Man-Hash: 3d0edda86b695
It’s kinda hard to be interested in something you don’t have the ability to understand, Mik. Next you’ll ask them to be -gasp- RESPONSIBLE! FOR THEIR OWN ACTIONS! You sexist man you!
March 23rd, 2008 at 9:31 am - IP Man-Hash: 67caec8fb3425
Why do we always have to explain everything like they are children? Gather round and let me tell you children what a man would understand. Manly women are disgusting, and you’re an idiot. Now go away!
March 23rd, 2008 at 9:34 am - IP Man-Hash: 9cfdf00b83713
Yes. I didnt vote for him because i like guys with two first names. I do, in fact believe in equal protection under the law. Another reason why i also fully respect him. I don’t believe that women should have more rights than men. Any violation of anyones constitutional rights whether its to “protect” someone else or not is a threat to the constitution as a whole, and will not get my vote. Don’t think that i dont know what Ron Paul is about, im a member of his MA caucus, and i know full well exactly what his voting record states. The sad part is, he votes against laws with happy horseshit names like the “violence against women act” and the “patriot act” which actually violate the civil liberties of americans as a whole and people say “oh hes such a bad guy, i cant vote for him, instead of reading the fucking act and using their brains. America is slowly becoming fascist, but the general population is not smart enough to realize it, and it pisses me off.
Don’t you think i wouldv’e voted for Hillary if i was one of the douchebags that you assume i am?
Just because i think it’s wrong for people to blindly hate other people, doesnt mean that i dont respect your constitutional right to do so. However i also have a right to argue the shit that you say, unless of course i get blocked.
March 23rd, 2008 at 9:36 am - IP Man-Hash: 9cfdf00b83713
He is all hype if you live in America and respect your constitution and your civil liberties.
March 23rd, 2008 at 9:40 am - IP Man-Hash: 67caec8fb3425
Lol
no way.. We know women could ever be responsible for nothing.
It’s the life of a cunt. Just whine and scream like children. That’s what they do best.
March 23rd, 2008 at 9:42 am - IP Man-Hash: 9cfdf00b83713
She made a good point and your talking about prison equality. Lets not forget that most of those men in prison are black. Because unjust drug laws throw people with addictions and weed offenses in jail instead of treating them. The problem is not women, it is discriminatory laws that send more black men to jail than anyone else.
March 23rd, 2008 at 9:52 am - IP Man-Hash: 9cfdf00b83713
haha well, dont worry about her, she thinks you’re all scumbage even more than i do.
hahahaaa thats funny. You would be lucky to have me come anywhere near me. Lets see a pic of you? Do you have the balls?
And, just so you know, i’ve been with my boyfriend for almost 4 years and we love each other more than anything. Because our minds and bodies connect in such a way that i dont believe anyone else in this world could ever understand what we have.
So dont worry about me finding a man. For me, thats about as easy as finding a resentful star wars geek on this website.
March 23rd, 2008 at 9:56 am - IP Man-Hash: 9cfdf00b83713
i dont expect respect.
i expect alot of creative but untrue insults about my looks, and maybe i’ll get one of these fatties to post up a pic of themselves, but i bet im the only one who has the balls.
March 23rd, 2008 at 10:02 am - IP Man-Hash: 9cfdf00b83713
is manly really the best you could do? I mean, come on. Two days ago manly was a good thing when it was Marie Curie.
I think its funny that you people insult me as if its going to hurt my feelings. Nothing you could possibly say to me could bother me, you do realize that, right? I didnt show you pics because i want some sort of positive feedback. I posted it because im not fat, and now you cant call me fat with any merit, and becasue i wanted to see if any of you had the guts to show your faces, since i clearly did.
So, do you?
March 23rd, 2008 at 10:11 am - IP Man-Hash: 9cfdf00b83713
I’d just like to say that you can say all you want about my intelligence, but none of you dumb shits probably had enough fucking common sense to vote for Ron Paul. The only person running whos not a fucking 2faced puppet pathetic excuse for a candidate. I am proud of my vote. And mothing you can say can change that, it only makes you look stupid for voting for the one and only person who would ever defend you and take anything you said seriously in respects to rights and the constitution.
If more of you dumb american shits realized that Ron Paul was exactly what this country needed, you’d realize that everyone who says otherwise (the media) is a bunch of conniving liars posing as honest newscasters.
Your inability to see the solution right in front of your eyes, to me, as an american, is not only pathetic, but profoundly disappointing.